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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Blastoise » Thu Mar 27, 2014 11:48 pm

Feeling pretty done with school right now, only a month and a half left (of this semester). Too much reading to catch up on.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby RycePooding » Fri Mar 28, 2014 2:48 am

yo @hmwut , it's gonna be okay, I promise.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Syeknom » Fri Mar 28, 2014 3:11 pm

I am in good spirits for the first time in a very long time and am going to get my moves on down at the dance floor
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby bels » Fri Mar 28, 2014 6:19 pm

I feel bummed out and I got my yearly bonus today and I just want to spend it on stuff to make myself feel better but I'm not.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby freddy » Sat Mar 29, 2014 2:05 am

i feel like posting a fit
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby kyung » Sat Mar 29, 2014 9:39 pm

It's raining heavily and I'm listening to John Coltrane and everything seems to be alright with my world
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Mippipopolous » Sun Mar 30, 2014 1:08 am

Well, my Wild won, I didn't vomit, we watched a couple episodes of Pushing Daises and cuddled together, and fuck prom. Tonight was pretty great (smiling) Sadly didn't stay since she had work early tomorrow but it was a valiant effort. Life is pretty good. I love all of you guys too. She's coming over to watch more Daisies and cuddle more tomorrow (smiling)
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Blastoise » Sun Mar 30, 2014 3:32 pm

Not in the mood for much of anything today. Boring Sunday. Lots of homework. Missing my ex and she said that she would talk to me today so I'm anxious about that. Feels like I've been waiting around for something to happen.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby can- » Sun Mar 30, 2014 7:24 pm

sometimes you need to be really sad or depressed for awhile to motivate you to live otherwise! it's ok
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby can- » Sun Mar 30, 2014 7:41 pm

Syeknom wrote:I am in good spirits for the first time in a very long time and am going to get my moves on down at the dance floor

found a couple videos of monkeys dancing

http://m.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkb ... o-science/
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby sparkyoriental » Sun Mar 30, 2014 8:34 pm

people who aren't in relationships - do you crave intimacy? not sex necessarily, but just to touch another human being? cuddling, kissing, laying around? I haven't been in a relationship in about a year now. I don't mind being single, but I do miss the feeling of touch and being touched in an easy way, just no thoughts behind it. i just want cuddles.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby bhajz » Sun Mar 30, 2014 9:16 pm

sparkyoriental wrote:people who aren't in relationships - do you crave intimacy? not sex necessarily, but just to touch another human being? cuddling, kissing, laying around? I haven't been in a relationship in about a year now. I don't mind being single, but I do miss the feeling of touch and being touched in an easy way, just no thoughts behind it. i just want cuddles.


Along with these things, another thing that I've missed about being in a relationship is having someone who will be there really be there for you and your best friend. The thing I miss the most though is all of the traditions my ex and I had. Sometimes I find myself back in my hometown at a certain restaurant we would always go to on X day, or driving down the road I had to take to get to her house and a feeling of nostalgia washes over me, which can be pretty hard sometime since I wish I had someone to create new traditions with. In regards to intimacy, it definitely changes day to day for me, sometimes I'll really crave just being able to lay in bed with someone and cuddle and spend time with them, but other times I don't really care at all.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Blastoise » Sun Mar 30, 2014 9:31 pm

Everything in my hometown or just being at home reminds me of my ex so much and it's a bad feeling. She still hasn't contacted me but I'm trying to be patient. But seriously that level of friendship that comes along with a good relationship is such a big thing. I miss it. My "current" girlfriend (we're practically broken up by now) are good friends and everything but it just isn't the same. It doesn't feel right.

Looking to visit one of the schools that I'll be transferring to next year. I think I'll probably end up there. I'm getting really restless where I'm at now.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby brlmski » Sun Mar 30, 2014 10:26 pm

sparkyoriental wrote:people who aren't in relationships - do you crave intimacy? not sex necessarily, but just to touch another human being? cuddling, kissing, laying around? I haven't been in a relationship in about a year now. I don't mind being single, but I do miss the feeling of touch and being touched in an easy way, just no thoughts behind it. i just want cuddles.

I wouldn't say I crave it. While that stuff is nice, I don't really give it much thought in my daily life. Though it may be because I've never had a relationship last longer than 3-4 months for various reasons so I've never really established that rhythm with someone, but that opens another can of worms that I'm not going to go into.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Spartangy » Mon Mar 31, 2014 1:57 am

sparkyoriental wrote:people who aren't in relationships - do you crave intimacy? not sex necessarily, but just to touch another human being? cuddling, kissing, laying around? I haven't been in a relationship in about a year now. I don't mind being single, but I do miss the feeling of touch and being touched in an easy way, just no thoughts behind it. i just want cuddles.


I miss all that stuff more than the sex. Even when my ex was away for two+ weeks, I missed that stuff more. I've slowly realised I have little interest with randomly getting with girls, compared to establishing something with them.

Also, my ex actually has a life, making friends and going out while I'm working seven days a week, and whenever I'm reminded of this I feel this despair in my stomach and just wanna punch something. Not that it's her fault, but it reminds me how lonely and insecure I am. Feels pathetic.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby kyung » Mon Mar 31, 2014 2:19 am

You're not pathetic dude, we're all lonely and insecure to some extent. You're never alone with these feelings.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby chilljin » Mon Mar 31, 2014 5:57 am

i am sat smokin in my room cos everyone has gone home from uni now. have to stay here for a week til my play runs finish.

got the lead in some experimental theatre piece for the summer which is quite daunting, first time having a true lead in a while. should be fun

space jam still a sick film
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby g2x222 » Mon Mar 31, 2014 12:01 pm

Blastoise wrote:Everything in my hometown or just being at home reminds me of my ex so much and it's a bad feeling.


This is the worst feeling. When my 6-year relationship ended messily/terribly, I was super fortunate to have an internship across the country for two semesters (it was the most extreme transition from bad to good that I've ever experienced). But we had dated through most of high school and college, so going back to my hometown, the city my college is in, and my college campus itself was awful. Lots of bad nostalgia.

When I got back to school, I had to make new friends, as the friends I had previously had been shared with my ex. Even worse was the paranoia during the spring semester when I knew she'd also be on campus taking classes. I was constantly looking over my shoulder, worried that I'd see her (and a few times, I did). Luckily most of this faded during the summer semester when I knew she had already graduated. And my parents moved to another town, so I rarely have to go back to my hometown.

It's been just about two years, and I'd love to think that I'm completely over it, but I'm really at like 98%
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby freddy » Tue Apr 01, 2014 12:19 pm

do any of y'all get gay guys trying to hit on you and the old ladies that just want some quickie-attention trying to chat you up when you're at the bookstore or in line at the market - getting errands done? i mean i don't mind talking and giving my 2c but its frustrating to realize midway through the conversation that it was superficial and pointless. it has intensified more recently. sometimes i just want to be left alone bc i lost out on a cop or something and am in no mood for conversation. i feel like a dick when i'm caught off guard being dismissive and a prude. doesn't help that i have anxiety too or maybe i need to stop getting things done at more normal hours :/
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby bels » Tue Apr 01, 2014 12:27 pm

I'm always the weirdo trying to get quickie attention by chatting up strangers in the bookstore on at the market. Not responding works best.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby exprof » Tue Apr 01, 2014 12:50 pm

Got accepted to the multi-disciplinary fine art and computer science program. I'm so happy I'll finally be studying something I'm actually super passionate about. :-D
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Bobbin.Threadbare » Tue Apr 01, 2014 2:14 pm

@belayou are such a handsome man I think you should move to London because no one would ignore you.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby RycePooding » Tue Apr 01, 2014 2:32 pm

Figuring out what you want to do feels really good.

Beginning to actually do it is fucking terrifying.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Blastoise » Tue Apr 01, 2014 5:47 pm

I think my girlfriend and I broke up last night? I'm not sure.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby RycePooding » Tue Apr 01, 2014 6:12 pm

is care-tags breeding breakups? :(
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Blastoise » Tue Apr 01, 2014 6:21 pm

No, our clothes are breeding break ups. That's okay though, we still have clothes.

For real though it went alright for what it was. We both seem to understand/respect each other's sides. But I'm confused because there wasn't any actual closure and no one said "I'm breaking up with you." And we talked today too so idk.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Blastoise » Tue Apr 01, 2014 11:54 pm

shit

Yeah, we broke up.

But I feel okay.
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby Syeknom » Wed Apr 02, 2014 12:59 am

RycePooding wrote:is care-tags breeding breakups? :(


Care-tags is a notorious collection of people in the death throes of their relationships sadly. Do we convene on care-tags like emotionally wrought moths to the Raf Simons flame or does Raf lure us in with his dorky smile and kind eyes only to poison our romantic lives with his serpent words?
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby hooplah » Wed Apr 02, 2014 3:28 pm

guys i need advice

how to deal with going to the same party as your former friend/now... not friend?

i had a very close friend for several years who was always a bit crazy, but it was fun to be around. one day she turned on me and pretty much banished me from her life after accusing me of doing some ridiculous shit and "betraying" her (i did nothing of the sort). suspect it has to do with some of her personal insecurities, but whatever, that's besides the point.

i was pretty torn up about losing her friendship and begged her to forgive me (for something i didn't do) until my then-boyfriend told me, "why would you want a friend who thinks the worst of you?"

after the friendship ended, in retrospect it became obvious that she has a certain MO with her friends. won't go into it in detail but i was a victim of that cycle. ("victim" is a strong word, i don't mean that she was in any way seriously abusive or something like that, but she discards friends easily after dreaming up their "transgressions.")

i've only seen her once since she "dropped me." outside of a bar one night, she came running up screaming my name and gave me a fat hug and pretended like nothing was wrong. i was startled, said "hi" back, and said "hi" to her friends as well (acquaintances to me). by their stony bitch stares i could tell she'd talked some shit about me in the past.

anyway this is all very high school but i've just found out we're both attending my close friend's birthday party this weekend. it's a definite possibility that she's going to be fake as fuck and pretend like we're all good. i don't want to return the insincerity. i plan on ignoring her, but what if she does approach me? i don't want to be a huge bitch but i also don't want to give the mistaken impression that i give a shit. i also have a bad habit of forgiving people way too easily, and i don't want to give in when it comes to her. what to do?


omg false alarm yay
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Re: feeltalk thread

Postby starfox64 » Thu Apr 03, 2014 9:43 am

tomorrow is my last day of work
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