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Re: sex

Postby SisterRayVU » Sun Dec 01, 2013 5:27 pm

Well, I didn't say anything but I gave her a side-hug when leaving and she tried to hang out after but I really wasn't able to and hopefully conveyed a lack of desire to as well and I think it went okay but we'll see if she tries to contact me again. Who knows.
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Re: sex

Postby Runningshoes » Tue Dec 03, 2013 9:11 am

Am I the only one who gets really sore hip flexors after like 10 minutes of pounding ?

Doesn't help my gf is a dead fish
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Re: sex

Postby UnwashedMolasses » Tue Dec 03, 2013 12:13 pm

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Re: sex

Postby b4my » Wed Dec 04, 2013 6:41 pm

hey some of the stuff in this thread helped me end things with a girl in a good/direct way instead of being lame and not upfront so thanks yeah care tags go care tags you guys are my favorite.
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Re: sex

Postby HS_ » Sun Dec 15, 2013 2:45 am

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Re: sex

Postby RycePooding » Sun Dec 15, 2013 5:49 pm

I must recommend AGAINST olive oil as lube.
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Re: sex

Postby hot coffee » Sun Dec 15, 2013 7:53 pm

Does anyone else have the problem were your just a jerk to girls and get put in the sexzone? I hate that. I just want some friends, but all they want is sex. ): I feel like such an object.
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Re: sex

Postby omgimacarrot » Mon Dec 16, 2013 1:13 am

I am so happy to find a girl who has a sex drive that is higher than mine. I love exploring the human body and I especially love the female form. I haven't had sex in three and a half years prior to this relationship (girlfriend at the time was saving herself) and I'm so glad I'm back in the game. I miss being completely vulnerable, yet 100% in-sync with another person. For people in relationships with mismatched sex drives and you're miserable, be sure to not settle because you're doing neither of you any favors.

My new girlfriend has the case of multiple orgasms. While it is awesome knowing that no matter what I do she gets off, she blanks out and doesn't remember a lot of what we do due to all of the orgasming. For most of the time its fantastic because we kind of just lose ourselves, but other times I wish we could be more intimate. Win some lose some. I'm riding it out as long as possible. Its nice to have a steady place for sex.
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Re: sex

Postby omgimacarrot » Mon Dec 16, 2013 1:17 am

RycePooding wrote:I must recommend AGAINST olive oil as lube.

I second this. Olive oil can weaken condoms I believe causing them to tear. r/sex on reddit recommends coconut oil frequently, so maybe try that out whoever is reading this.
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Re: sex

Postby RycePooding » Mon Dec 16, 2013 1:30 am

your avatar is freaking me out while I read this
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Re: sex

Postby omgimacarrot » Mon Dec 16, 2013 1:38 am

RycePooding wrote:your avatar is freaking me out while I read this

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Re: sex

Postby silvaeri » Mon Dec 16, 2013 12:00 pm

omgimacarrot wrote:I second this. Olive oil can weaken condoms I believe causing them to tear. r/sex on reddit recommends coconut oil frequently, so maybe try that out whoever is reading this.


Don't use coconut oil as lube with condoms either. I believe it breaks down condoms making them more prone to tearing as well.
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Re: sex

Postby ptozzi » Mon Dec 16, 2013 4:14 pm

silvaeri wrote:
omgimacarrot wrote:I second this. Olive oil can weaken condoms I believe causing them to tear. r/sex on reddit recommends coconut oil frequently, so maybe try that out whoever is reading this.


Don't use coconut oil as lube with condoms either. I believe it breaks down condoms making them more prone to tearing as well.


Pretty sure its just oil based lubricants in general.
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Re: sex

Postby balloons » Tue Dec 24, 2013 10:36 am

when I was like 15 germinal gave me a sage piece of advice

"get drunk and try to snog her"
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Re: sex

Postby silvaeri » Tue Dec 24, 2013 3:30 pm

balloons wrote:when I was like 15 germinal gave me a sage piece of advice

"get drunk and try to snog her"


can confirm said advice works. acquired girlfriend in such manner.
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Re: sex

Postby JCM » Tue Dec 24, 2013 7:27 pm

I like to browse r/sex a lot and find myself planning out different "sessions," as it were, with fun things I find on there. It'll be more fun when I have an SO (l0l), but it's a nice exercise nonetheless; reminds me of writing a play.
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Re: sex

Postby omgimacarrot » Tue Dec 24, 2013 11:46 pm

Started having sex again after a 3.5 year dry spell and then I go on winter break. I'm living in hell. All we do is talking about when we get back to school we're going to have a four hour session.

I have brought this up to her recently, but I enjoy going down on women. The women I've went down on have been full shaved, if not a bit of stubble, but she is shaved in the wrong place. She nairs everything except hair right above where I'm going to town on, which led me to get a hair caught in my mouth=instant turn off (she is virtually hairless everywhere else). Is it fair to request her to shave fully? I keep my manbits shaved to stubble and it is neat if you need reference.
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Re: sex

Postby YoungCanoeist » Wed Dec 25, 2013 12:07 am

ask her to, if she doesn't want to then don't make her. good luck my friend
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Re: sex

Postby can- » Fri Dec 27, 2013 2:31 pm

had a weird dream where I was wearing acne pistols
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Re: sex

Postby starfox64 » Fri Dec 27, 2013 4:06 pm

i'd be surprised if they made them in your size
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Re: sex

Postby UnwashedMolasses » Sun Dec 29, 2013 2:54 pm

http://shiniez.deviantart.com/

The deviantart page for Shiniez, writer of the Sunstone comic. Excellent look into BDSM philosophy and practices, ranges from completely tame to overtly sexual, but never enough to make it a true pornographic comic (at least from my perspective. It's still NSFW). I'd recommend it to anybody looking to broaden their sexual horizons or just looking for a fun sex-related read.
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Re: sex

Postby hharrissonn » Sun Dec 29, 2013 5:32 pm

i have no idea how to interface with guys on a level that leads to anything physical and as a result haven't had sex in like four months.
looking into online dating shit and apps but they kind of freak me out. anyone have experience with either?
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Re: sex

Postby Prince of Scandinavia » Sun Dec 29, 2013 8:54 pm

hharrissonn wrote:i have no idea how to interface with guys on a level that leads to anything physical and as a result haven't had sex in like four months.
looking into online dating shit and apps but they kind of freak me out. anyone have experience with either?


Tindr is quite friendly but not sure if it's so much for homosexuals as heterosexuals. If you are freaked out by apps and stuff like that, then grindr probably won't be something for you. Even though it is made for homosexuals to hook up. Perhaps try ask hunnish for what he uses of apps?
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Re: sex

Postby sknss » Mon Dec 30, 2013 6:43 am

Hunnish is on grindr, username FurryShoesLover
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Re: sex

Postby Stingray Sam » Wed Jan 08, 2014 5:32 am

turns out trying to have sex in a quick period of time before having to go to a pressing obligation is not the best idea
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Re: sex

Postby bels » Wed Jan 08, 2014 2:18 pm

Does anyone feel like they have the best sex when they sort of half fall asleep and dream that dream stuff is happening whilst getting it on?
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Re: sex

Postby can- » Wed Jan 08, 2014 2:20 pm

doesn't get much better than half asleep, wordless 3am wake-up-and-fall-asleep sex
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Re: sex

Postby Syeknom » Wed Jan 08, 2014 2:29 pm

Tiredness and horniess are almost inextricably linked for me
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Re: sex

Postby verilyvert » Thu Jan 09, 2014 9:37 am

All these cool threads I didn't even know about keep getting bumped (smiling)

Since no one brought it up, I thought I'd write some thoughts on a fetish of mine and how its closely linked with the same reasons I like fashion. That fetish is Shibari, or japanese rope bondage, and as I've been learning it, I appreciate more and more the aesthetic and skill required in mastering it.

First off, the designs one can make with rope and the human body are just so varied and beautiful. There are many different styles, from traditional japanese forms, to more modern western ones. Forms that highlight simplicity and others that use decorative and complicated knots as centerpieces. When I was first learning I wanted to impress with complex and involved ties, but much prefer clean and minimal lines now. For a fashion designer and a rigger, the human body is a canvas, and you can choose to highlight parts of its form, or twist it into any manner of shapes.

The rope itself can be beautiful, being varied in material, texture, size and colour. Traditionally, un-dyed hemp is used, but the range of options is huge. Synthetic braids in complimentary neon colours, thin white silk for delicate parts of the body like fingers and toes, jute for another traditional look, cotton clothesline for that made in America workwear jizz, and even stuff like sisal or coconut husk if you're a true sadist/masochist.

Besides aesthetics, there is a relationship you build with your rope similar to the one you can build with your clothes. First you may research and experiment with different kinds of cordage, and if you find something you love (especially in a natural fiber), you may then take it upon yourself to properly wash, condition, dye, and store that favourite rope of yours.

Synthetic rope may be machined washed, but most natural fibers need to be hand washed. Oils and conditioners (whether they come from someone's skin or a bottle) are good for natural fibers, and will soften and change a rope over time, making it more personal. Natural fibers need to breathe, and hanging your rope is preferable to storing it in a drawer or bag. You can also make your own rope, dye your own rope, and finish the ends in many different ways.

Lastly shibari, like anything else, is whatever you want to make out of it. It can be sensual, loving and nurturing, or as dark and edgy as you and your partner like. There is no prescribed box. Its all about having fun and exploring something new with someone else.

Any of this sound familiar to how we approach clothes? Guess I'm trying to say I take pleasure in both for similar reasons, although one involves considerably more sex (and it needn't even be about that all the time).

Its also just fun to make someone you love squirm a little ;)

To see rope as fashion, check this site out:
http://www.fredkyrel.com/nouveautes/photos.html
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Re: sex

Postby spahdfgo » Thu Jan 09, 2014 10:39 am

That will go well on my list of things I didn't expect to learn today
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